Updated: Jul 14, 2019
Everyday you wake up you control everything about your day, and the great thing about that is that everyday is a new day for you to be the best you can be. Period! Don’t let what others say, do, or think about you control how beautiful and strong you feel.
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Has anyone ever made you feel little? Or even a situation? Well yeah, I honestly have felt the most little every time someone take advantage of me. Men is where the enemy likes to get to me especially when I’m in a vulnerable position, and I always fail the test. Men do a very good job of appeasing the woman with their words. They talk a good game, make you feel comfortable where your mind is uneased, and get you where they want you when they need you. See this is how I have always end up feeling little, but mostly because ultimately I knew better but I let someone else control my feeling, thought, and even actions.
Ofcourse I don’t feel little in the moment, I always feel like the sucker after its all said and done with. When he got what he wanted and when I’m left on read with no text or call. Damn. I just became another victim. Just like that, and it’s almost that easy but that is when enough is enough. I have to start blaming myself when I already know what to look for. I notice that I always talk a good game when it comes to self respect, but it’s not about how you talk it’s about how you move. My mother told me, “A girl says her worth and a woman acts her worth”. That kind of shook me because I want to be grown so bad, but I’m still doing little girl things. It doesn’t matter how much a man talks its about his actions. Even if you tell them the rules regarding your body and space, but when they try to test you what you gone do?(I’M TELLING YOU, YOU NOT GONE FOLD) Why? Because afterwards you don’t want to feel like that man had power over your body. You never want to feel like a man can easily get what he wants because you are in a vulnerable space. We as women are stronger than that and better than that.
Let a man show his worth before exchanging the things that make you up how beautiful you are. Don’t give a man anything he doesn’t earn or show respect for, and trust that if you felt little afterwards he won’t care because he hasn’t had to work for it. We all make mistakes and it happens most when we are hurt so what do we do after the fact? For me, I pray and ask God for forgiveness because in that moment where I felt like I needed love and attention. If I would have just looked for him I would have been filled with all of his love in all of the spaces in my heart that were empty. It is definitely easier said than done because our emotions take over but there’s a start to everything. Do not let yourself feel little for more than maybe 15 hours tops, because after you are done feeling bad for yourself you need to give yourself room to hold yourself accountable. Figure out why you are doing what you are doing and why? Attack your problem at the root and don’t ever give yourself an excuse for what makes you feel less than you are.
Plus, at the end of the day everyday you wake up you control everything about your day, and the great thing about that is that everyday is a new day for you to be the best you can be. Period! Don’t let what others say, do, or think about you control how beautiful and strong you feel. We know you poppin sis, they don’t have to think the same because God ain’t through with you yet. By the time they figure it out, God will have placed you infront so the world could see what you have to offer this world.